What’s so special about a smile?
This may be my first blog where the picture doesn’t exactly match my story. Well, that’s because it felt a little too weird even to me to ask a stranger if I could get a picture of him smiling as he walked down the sidewalk. Don’t think for a minute that I didn’t spend the afternoon kicking myself for not being brave enough to do it, though. Let me explain.
Monday, I left the Florida Keys thinking about what I might write about next. Tuesday, I met a few friendly people at the Everglades National Park sign and wondered if I could make a story out of my encounter with Leslie from California and Randy and Randall from Indiana. They became a Facebook post.
Tuesday night I arrived at my friend Zuzana’s in West Palm Beach. She introduced me to four French Canadian friends she calls “the Canarians.” She also introduced me to her friends Ivan and Marta and her friend and realtor, Yadi, and her husband, Eric. Even though it was great to meet them, still no story came to mind.
Now, in the city of Rockledge in Brevard County, Florida, I’m slowly making my way back home to Georgia. I’m parked at a long-term campground near my friend Esther, whom I met on my first trip to Florida in 2019 and visited again in 2020. From here, I plan to meet up with Brad and Maria in Daytona, also friends from my 2019 and 2020 trips to the Sunshine State.
Next, I will catch up with a fellow physical education teacher from Calhoun, Georgia, who has recently retired and moved to Florida. As interesting as all these people are, and as hard as I have been thinking about sharing something about them in a blog, no eureka idea has emerged . . . until this morning, when I least expected it.
As I was riding along the sidewalk, I came upon the nicest city park (see photo). After circling the park and riding through a nearby neighborhood, I turned around to head back to my campsite. Upon approaching an intersection, I slowed for a man on a bike, crossed the street, and called to another guy who was just stepping onto the sidewalk. When I called out “on your right” the tall, thin guy with an air pod in his ear turned, stepped back, and gave me the biggest, kindest, toothiest smile I had ever seen on a bike trail.
It was at that moment I thought I wanted to tell you about him and what that smile did for me. I rode another mile or so, just thinking about his reaction when I startled him. He just smiled. That’s all he did, and yet I couldn’t stop thinking about how much that smile meant. When I turned around to ride back, I hoped he would still be walking down the path. He was.
I stopped and told him how much that smile meant to me. It told me a lot about him as a person. His smile made me like him and think highly of him. He thanked me and we both moved on. We didn’t even exchange names, and here I am writing about him at midnight merely because he smiled as I whizzed by him on the sidewalk somewhere in Brevard County.
If you are wondering if a smile makes a difference, wonder no more. Smiles are free to give and they don’t take any more energy than a frown. If given a choice, choose today to give a smile not just to the ones you love, but to those who cross your path. And if you give enough of them away, it may just lift your own spirits too. To the guy in Brevard County who gave me a smile when he could have just as easily given me the finger, this blog is for him.
What’s so special about a smile? A smile can change the world, or at least the way we view it.
April 24, 2024 @ 5:33 pm
Nice to have met you Joy. Perfect name for a soulful person.
April 26, 2024 @ 11:07 pm
Thank you, Yadi! I met two ladies on the beach today and one of them said, “you sure look happy.” I said something like, “I am. My name is Joy. I’m always happy.” And she said, “oh well that explains your smile.” She should have been the one smiling! She was on her way to the beach and I was the one leaving. Ha! Hope to be back next year to spend more time with you.
April 24, 2024 @ 7:55 pm
This is so heartwarming, Joy! Thanks for sharing❤️
April 26, 2024 @ 11:01 pm
Thanks, Nancy. I never know how my stories will be received. I appreciate your feedback.
April 24, 2024 @ 11:07 pm
Loved it. It made me smile.
April 26, 2024 @ 11:01 pm
Thanks, Kim! I appreciate your support.
April 24, 2024 @ 11:34 pm
You are so right…it is far more common to avert your gaze and avoid eye contact when you meet someone but a cheery smile can really make your day. Good on you for going back & telling him what it meant to you…bet you he brightened a lot more people’s day after that!
April 27, 2024 @ 11:31 pm
You wrote, “bet you he brightened a lot more people’s day after that!” I hadn’t thought about his reaction to me telling him how much I appreciated his smile. I am sure you are right. He’s probably going to smile more than ever, because some biker girl noticed and said something to him about how much his demeaner meant to her.
Thanks for noting that. We can all benefit from more smiles in our day.
April 25, 2024 @ 10:45 am
Love it, Joy!! Thanks for your constant smiles!! =D Smiles helped me survive my high school years when I went to a small-town school in a different state where most of the kids had gone to school together for years. It was hard to break in! So I especially looked for other new kids and smiled a lot. Now one of my longest running closest friends is from those years – we even roomed together for 3 years while in graduate school! Smiles are such a blessing – received and given!!
April 26, 2024 @ 11:00 pm
Wow! Thanks for sharing that story, Julia. Isn’t it amazing what a smile can do?
April 26, 2024 @ 2:29 pm
Joy, smiles pass all language barriers! The smile is such a simple action and yet can mean so much. Let us all be reminded to “Keep Smiling”!
April 26, 2024 @ 10:58 pm
You are so right, Cathy. I believe we all laugh in the same language too.
May 10, 2024 @ 4:18 pm
We never know what people are thinking or going through at that moment. A smile warms the heart, and may give them hope for the day. It changes everything!
When we moved into our remote neighborhood in Cartersville, we were on the front porch with my mom, A car drove by, and I waved at them. My mom thought I knew them, but I just replied it was what we do out here in the country. We wave!
You smile!
Imagine what the world would be like today, if we just chose to smile?
May 10, 2024 @ 10:17 pm
You are so right, Sherry. I wave to people when I’m riding my bike out in the country and people always wave back. I smile and I wave. It’s just what I do. The irony is that it probably makes me feel better than the people I’m waving to and smiling at. They are simple win-win gestures we could all do a little more of.