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In the summer of 2019, I was riding my bike on a bike path in Austin, Minnesota. I had only gotten lost twice before I passed a white-haired gentleman on a three-speed trike, stopped at the foot of a slope. I made a U-turn and asked if he needed help. The man said he could not change gears. He dismounted, and I rode his bike down the hill to change into an easier gear. A push up the hill gave him momentum to keep the pedals turning.
We exchanged names and “good days” and rode in opposite directions. After ¼ mile, I turned back. Sure enough, he needed another push. Riding alongside him, I pushed my new friend up the hills of Austin for the next twenty minutes. We chatted as we pedaled. George said he loved Austin—told me he never wanted to live anywhere else. He said he used to play tennis and told me he knew Jan, the owner of Rydjor Bike Shop, where I had just taken my bike for a brake adjustment.
As we rode up to a massive three-story white brick building, George thanked me for helping him get back home. My mouth dropped open when I read the massive sign in front. It said, “Cedars Senior Living Community, A Place to Call Home.” George lived in an assisted living/nursing home.
George and I chained up his bike, walked through the dimly lit garage, and slipped into an unlocked back door. He plopped into a cozy, orange tweed chair in a sitting area outside the dining room, wiped his brow and gulped a glass of water. As we sat together, George shared his story with me.
Nodding, I told George I hated to go. We hugged, took a couple of selfies, and said goodbye. My heart ached.
His head dropped as I turned to walk away. I could have and should have stayed to listen to more stories—sat and held his hand a little longer. I think of George often. How he had gotten so far from home, I will never know, and I still wonder what he would have done had I not been riding by.
Months later, when I looked back at my photos, I realized George’s story might not be entirely true. The building where he lived did not look that old. I looked at the website and learned The Cedars Senior Living Community building was only 30 years old. Disappointed, I realized George must have been mistaken about him and his bride staying in the same building for their honeymoon. It made for a sweet story, though.
However . . . upon further investigation, I discovered they built the new assisted living addition to connect to the old motel in town. What used to be the Red Cedar Inn has become the memory care unit of The Cedars. George’s story was true!
George died at The Cedars last year. I thought you should know the world lost a good man. Rest in peace, George. Rest in peace. Is there someone in your past you wish you had spent a little more time with? Please scroll down and share below.
January 25, 2024 @ 10:52 pm
Joy, what a blessing for you and George that you took time to ask him if he needed any help on that bike path in Austin. A new friendship was born that day. I have to say I was happy and touched to discover George’s story was true. I can relate with you that I wish I could have spent more time with someone. I was just thinking of my grandparents yesterday. I was wishing I would have asked them more questions about their lives, especially how things were for them as children and young adults.
January 26, 2024 @ 2:44 am
Thanks for commenting, I agree with you on that one, Cathy. Some of those stories are lost forever.
January 26, 2024 @ 8:24 am
Awh! You are making me cry.
Love and Blessings
Z
January 27, 2024 @ 4:44 pm
Awe . . . Now you’re going to get me crying again.
Thanks for reading and sharing, Z.
January 26, 2024 @ 8:28 pm
Your stories have a way of making tears surface, roll, and bring a smile as well. My kind of stories for sure!! Thank you for sharing George’s story.
January 27, 2024 @ 4:45 pm
Thanks, Donna. I get choked up when I think about him. So many sweet men and women out there.
Thanks for sharing.
January 26, 2024 @ 9:28 pm
I don’t think it was a coincidence that you and George’s paths crossed. You were a good neighbor to him, and to me when we lived just a few houses away. I can honestly say I wish I had spent more time with you when you lived so close!
January 27, 2024 @ 4:47 pm
I agree on both accounts. Disappointing that we are no longer neighbors, but so thankful we remain friends.
Thanks for your thoughts.
January 26, 2024 @ 10:13 pm
So precious, Joy!! I love your stories! So glad you’re sharing them!! ❤️
January 27, 2024 @ 4:48 pm
Thanks, Dr. Danforth! So thankful you are reading them!
February 19, 2024 @ 8:11 pm
I think it was not an accident that you were there to help George and hear his story. Now you’ve been able to share it, maybe encouraging your readers to open their eyes, ears, and hearts to God’s purpose for us. Sounds like a sweet man, and I’m sure you made his day just as he made yours.
I do wish I had opportunity to talk more with my grandparents. I have things from their homes that I wish I could ask them more about. My mother is still alive at 85 and has a pretty good long term memory, so I need to ask her. So, I try to spend more time sitting and hearing stories when with my mom. We never know how long we have, so no time like the present!